YOU NEED A WILL! by American Yeoman

Know that we have divided In three our kingdom, and ‘tis our fast intent To shake all cares and business from our age”
Shakespeare’s King Lear, Explaining the disposition of his Lands to his three daughters
 
It is an unfortunate part of life that we will all die and will likely see our parents go before us, possibly siblings, maybe a spouse along with others we know and love. An even more unfortunate part of that process is the legal and financial- usually intertwined, issues that arise with the passing of a loved one. Our time on earth is full of legal relationships and obligations and while our concern for them ends with death, those issues live on and can be especially troublesome for those who we leave behind to wrap up our affairs. It is an important part of preparedness to be ready for the one event that we all know is coming….
I’m an attorney of over 25 years in private practice. I do NOT practice Estate Planning or Probate law. I practice only in the State of Texas. The laws of your state may be different, your personal situation will always be important in making these sorts of legal decisions and for that reason you need to consult with a qualified attorney in your area. This article is NOT IN ANY WAY, SHAPE OR FORM to be construed as legal advice- guys I hate to say it, but you know I have to. In short, I don’t know what the Hell I am talking about and you probably shouldn’t read this or listen to a thing I have to say! And certainly, don’t act or rely on any of it. You aren’t my clients and I’m not your lawyer.
That said, there are a few basics that generally apply to end-of-life legal planning issues. The first is a set of basic legal documents that I think everyone should have. Honestly, it’s part of being an adult. You shouldn’t leave a big old mess for the people you love, it’s going to be stressful enough for them! Take responsibility for your affairs and do the right thing.
You will need a Will. There are alternatives to a Will, such as a Trust, consult an Attorney about which is right for you. A Will really is little more than a document that lays out how you want your earthly possessions- personal and real, divided up and who is to oversee that process. It can be simple or complicated- like most things in life. We’ll take the case of a married couple. Usually, they will execute a “sweetheart” Will- they will leave each other everything in case one dies before the other and if both pass everything will go to the children, if any.
The Will might also include specific bequests of personal property- say a firearm or a set of china to a child or a sibling, something that’s been in the family a long time, that sort of thing. This can often be handled by using a hand written document that “disposes of certain personal property”. Consult carefully with attorney here, typically this list must– 1. Be mentioned in the Will itself. 2. Be very specific about the property 3. Be in the handwriting of the Testator (prevents people from typing up a huge list of stuff and adding it to the Will) 4. Be attached to the Will itself. This procedure has the benefit of keeping the exact nature of the property and who is receiving it out of the public records.
The Will will also name a guardian for any minor children- both of their Estate (Property) and of their Person. The guardians do not have to be one and the same- you might name someone with a really good family of their own etc…as the guardian of their Person and your sister the Accountant as the guardian of their Property. Remember, if you have life insurance etc…the assets that a young child would inherit can be pretty substantial and they likely will not be able to manage them for a long time.
That brings up another issue- life insurance and most brokerage accounts (Your 401k account, investment portfolio) are governed by the rules of Contract. You have a Contract with those companies, they are going to disburse the money to whomever you name as beneficiary in that CONTRACT. Your Will, will not, over ride that Contract. They are going to pay whoever the Contract says they are to pay. Be sure to keep those things updated. You can designate your Estate as the beneficiary under the Contract, think about how you want to handle that.
A Will can include a Trust that will hold your assets until a beneficiary reaches a certain age or even allow for distribution of percentages at specified ages. There are few things worse than an 18 year old kid getting a pile of money from Mom and Dads’ estate. The Will can create a life estate in a piece of real property (land, house) where the beneficiary can live in that place until they pass and then it will go to someone else. The Will can include specific provisions for the deceased’s burial- type of service, treatment of their remains and other details.
The Will names an Executor- the person that will have the legal authority to act on the things you have said you want done. Typically, the spouse will act in this role but the Will should always name at least One and probably Two alternates. This is a critical person. They have to be reliable, scrupulously honest, know your wishes, and be able to tell people NO! It’s been my experience whenever someone passes, there is almost always some jockeying and positioning-even in good families, for “stuff”. Someone will always claim, “Uncle Charlie told me he wanted me to have that shotgun”—maybe he did, maybe he didn’t…. The executor needs to literally be able to change the locks on the house and tell people to chill the heck out until they are legally appointed and can begin the process of dividing up the estate according to the Will.
Most Wills will be silent on the disposition of “personal property” other than a few specific bequests. That leaves a lot of discretion with the executor for things like tools, firearms, jewelry and other household goods to be given away. Which brings up a good point- if you are “late in life” and you have a lot of “stuff” and you know that some of it might cause issues in the division….Give it away BEFORE you pass. Be very transparent about it- have a family meeting etc…tell everyone, “I’m giving Suzy the Cuckoo Clock, Joe is taking the Dogs Playing Poker Painting” and give it to them right then and there. Done.
The process of Probate is pretty straightforward. Once the Decedent has passed, the Will is filed with the appropriate Court. A posting is made that notifies potential creditors that the decedent has died and his Estate is being divided up. The notice essentially tells people to make a claim against the Estate if they have one. There will be a hearing set to officially appoint the Executor, usually 30-45 days from the initial filing- this gives any creditors time to get the notice and file their claims. The hearing is pretty informal, last one I had the Judge was dressed in a Hawaiian shirt and sandals..…The attorney will ask a list of simple questions of the Executor- “Are you the person named as the Executor?”, “When did the Decedent pass?”, “Is this their Will?
At the end of the hearing the Judge will confirm the Executor and instruct the Clerk of Courts to issue Letters Testamentary to the Executor. The Letter Testamentary is nothing more than a letter from the Clerk stating that the Executor is legally entitled to act on behalf of the Decedent. Usually there is a small charge for each Letter, the Executor presents them to people or entities that he needs to do things for him. He would present one to a Bank for example to open a safe deposit box or to convert the decedents accounts to an account for the Estate.
The next step will be an inventory of Claims and Assets. The Executor, along with the Attorney will compile a list of what assets the Estate has and any debts owed. Typically, this would include bank accounts with amounts in them, vehicles, real property (House, Land) and a general description of personal property and the values of each. Careful here. The Probate filing, including the Will itself is a PUBLIC DOCUMENT. There are some things the whole world doesn’t need to know. For example, instead of listing- “Barrett M82a1 .50 Caliber Rifle”….the Executor might list, “Sporting Goods valued at XYZ”.
Then the Executor and Attorney will file a Disbursement form with the Court. Basically, it shows what bills were paid, who got what and when. Every beneficiary should sign a form stating they actually got what they were supposed to when it is delivered to them- this protects everyone.
The biggest reason not to have a Will or admit it to Probate is usually cited as being cost. Again, I can’t speak to everywhere but locally a simple will- typical family who owns a house, few cars, some personal property, bank account or two etc…is going to run you $1,500-$2,000. That will include Wills for a Husband and Wife along with Powers of Attorney. You can often do significantly better on pricing by finding someone who does not specialize in Wills, again, these are forms-often included in a bundle of software an Attorneys’ office will purchase even if they don’t do many Wills. Most competent attorneys can properly fill in the blanks. That’s the issue with the cheapo DIY Online Wills. Yes, they can make a perfectly serviceable Will- BUT, you have to know what to put in the blanks! –Most people don’t.
You should update your Will as often as you have significant life changes- death of a spouse, divorce, re marriage, major change in assets- most folks can go 10-15 years between wholesale changes. If a small change is needed you can always have an Attorney draft a Codicil which is attached essentially to the original will making some changes to it, cheaper than re doing the whole thing.
Probating the will itself will cost $300 to file the papers and the attorney will typically charge a flat fee of $2,000-$3,000.00 to qualify the Executor and file all the documents needed. It’s actually a pretty simple legal procedure in most cases but there is a lot of paperwork and data compilation (mostly forms, computer generated) that has to be filed.
Not having a Will can be a HUGE problem. The biggest problem involves the largest financial asset that most people have- their home. The problem is really simple- most people have to get a loan to buy a house. When they go through a bank, the bank, oddly enough, because the land/home represents their security for the loan if the borrower does not pay, wants to make sure the seller actually OWNS THE PLACE! (I have a Lovely Bridge I’d like to sell you, any takers?) The bank will verify ownership through a Title Search. They will find out who the last officially registered owners of the property were. If the names of those folks aren’t on the sale documents- BIG PROBLEM, no loan!
A probate filing is inserted in the Title Records and says, “Yes, Imma Thompson who was the owner of the place has died and son Joe is now the proper owner (or Estate Executor) who can sign sales documents”. The Probate filing provides certainty of ownership the bank can rely on. The probate filing also clears titles to vehicles although many states have a procedure for signing over vehicle titles without a probate.
For smaller estates, in Texas, we have what’s called a Small Estates Affidavit which is a much less intensive and less expensive filing that allows people with only a few assets to avoid full blown probate proceedings. Many states have a similar, small estates provision, just have to consult an attorney here as to which way to go.
Those are the broad strokes of Wills and the Probate process in Texas. I strongly recommend that you seek out a competent local attorney and discuss with them how best to handle your estate. I’ll try to get something up about Powers of Attorney and Advanced Directives shortly.
 
American Yeoman
 
 

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NC Scout is the nom de guerre of a former Infantry Scout and Sergeant in one of the Army’s best Reconnaissance Units. He has combat tours in both Iraq and Afghanistan. He teaches a series of courses focusing on small unit skills rarely if ever taught anywhere else in the prepping and survival field, including his RTO Course which focuses on small unit communications. In his free time he is an avid hunter, bushcrafter, writer, long range shooter, prepper, amateur radio operator and Libertarian activist. He can be contacted at [email protected] or via his blog at brushbeater.wordpress.com .

5 Comments

  1. Anonymous May 24, 2021 at 06:09

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  2. anymouse May 24, 2021 at 12:02

    firearms trust are a must, they dont need to be recorded anywhere either just executed documents by an Notary etc..

  3. UPCG May 24, 2021 at 23:06

    Know that wills can be contested depending on the state. Having said that, you absolutely should have one. I sold life insurance in a former life and hearing one horror story of what happened when one guy’s mom’s estate went into probate was jarring.
    He was appointed by the state to be the estate executor. Despite this, it took him nearly a year to close one of her bank accounts due to the bank’s stubbornness re: him not having all the correct documents. He explained that he was the executor appointed by the probate court and had authority to have the account closed. It eventually took a written threat by him before the bank complied with what was a lawful order all along.

    • Oh No! Not Again! June 3, 2021 at 02:34

      He wasn’t an Executor. He was the Administrator of the estate. An Administrator is court appointed and MUCH more closely supervised (read: encumbered and hell hacked) person in charge of settling the affairs of someone who died INTESTATE, i.e. without a valid will. I can tell you from multiple personal experiences that you don’t want to be a sole Executor of an estate. You sure as Hell don’t want to be a Co-Executor of an estate where some soft headed now dead idiot named multiple executors. Lastly, and please trust me on this, you’d rather be slowly fed feet first into a dull wood shredder while covered in angry bullet ants and murder hornets than be appointed the administrator of an estate.
      I could write a Greco-Russian tragic saga multi-volume set on this subject. I don’t because it would make the angels weep in sorrow for all eternity. Here’s a few Pro Tip Lessons:
      1. Use a SKILLED Estates and Trusts lawyer to help you draw up a legally witnessed and notarized will. Not every lawyer knows how to write a will in a competent manner. Use a specialist. NEVER EVER EVER use Quicken Willmaker or other software, some will template you got from a big box office supply store or copied from your buddies cousin’s aunt’s uncle twice removed’s old will!
      2. Create MULTIPLE VALID SIGNED & NOTARIZED COPIES of the will and give one to your lawyer to keep in their vault, one in your safe deposit box, one to you SOLE ONE AND ONLY executor, and I recommend giving one to each of your heirs. You have no clue what people are capable of doing if they want something of yours after you are dead. I have personally experienced cases where a lawyer switched out the decedents will that left everything to their family to one that left it to a charitable trust the lawyer raided. I have seen multiple times where a family member tried or has destroyed a will after stealing it from a safe or safety deposit box and either forged another more favorable will or got named administrator of the estate and raided it.
      A majority of people will strongly resist giving their heirs a copy of their will out of fear of creating a rift in the family, etc. Trust me, The rift is already there and airing it in the sunlight while you are alive will be most instructive and entertaining to you. You’ll probably end up changing your will altogether to include and exclude some people who show their true colors when they read your will. You’re gonna die. Get comfortable with that fact and be an adult. Don’t make it easy for some low life scum to steal everything you worked your lifetime for because you were to paranoid to make multiple probatable copies of your will and hand them to trusted others for safekeeping. Don’t leave a bloody mess for some poor schmuck to clean up.
      3. AVOID SPECIFIC BEQUESTS OF ALL LARGE ASSETS AND MONEY!!!!!!!!!!!!! If you want to leave great grandma’s silver set to your daughter Betsy that’s fine. DO NOT divide up everything with specific bequests and not leave exact, specific instructions and authority to the Executor to:
      A. Liquidate, transfer, or otherwise sell any and all estate assets to settle your debts and obligations to any remaining spouses according to your state laws.
      B. Don’t depend on your life insurance policy to settle your estate. Fun fact kids: your life insurance beneficiary(ies) are not beholden to spend one thin dime to settle your worldly affairs when you die. Shockingly, most of them won’t. Oh, another thing, if you do have a trustworthy beneficiary who will use it to settle your crap you’d bloody well better make sure you keep the policy premiums paid up and the coverage level sufficient enough to cover your bills, ALL OF THEM.
      C. Don’t expect that $500,000 in your stock account to be there when you die after 8 years in a nursing home with Alzheimer’s. Ya see kids, if you leave the family farm to Bobby, your grandson & executor, and leave his two sisters $250,000 each in your will but then you die years later and the nursing home has eaten up your brokerage balance or the stock market crashed and your $500,000 became $25,000 guess what’s going to happen? Bobby is going to have to sell the ENTIRE FARM including his house that he built on it years ago when you told him you want him to build it next door so he can look after you in your dotage and you were leaving to him anyways so you never subdivided his house parcel out and deeded it to him. Then he’s going to take that money and settle your nursing home and hospital bills and his two sisters who never called to check on you or even went to your funeral will get the balance up to $250,000 each even and especially if that leaves him with absolutely nothing to inherit. True Story. Leave Sally and Suzy percentages of whatever liquid assets are left after Bobby gets the farm and pays off the estate debts. 1/2 of 0$ is $0. So sad! They’ve always thought you were super boring and smelled like mothballs and prune juice anyway, you filthy Trump Voter.
      4. When you create your will take the poor sucker you are naming the executor with you to ALL meeting with the attorney. Show them where all your crap is that they will need to access BEFORE YOU DIE. Trust me, it’s a lot harder to do it afterwards. Work out EXACTLY how everything is to be settled and where the money is going to come from to pay for it all when you are drawing up your will. Don’t think that you can sell your antique furniture, baseball card collection, certain pieces of land, or investment accounts to cover it.
      News Flash! Assets that can fluctuate WILDLY in value, will. As a rule of thumb it’s usually a YUUUUUUUGE decrease in value because you were stupid enough to depend on it and put that in writing. Fate revels in laughing at you and your heirs. Also know that your one of three known to exist 1789 dated Charleston wheat bed may appraise and insure for $250,000 but that absolutely doesn’t guarantee you it’ll sell for more than $13,575 ten years later at your estate liquidation auction in the middle of a global recession. Go ahead, ask me how I know. I dare you. Do you feel lucky, punk?
      5. If you find yourself named as the executor of an estate try to get out of it. Seriously, change your name. Get plastic surgery and dye your hair. Move to a deserted Pacific island whatever it takes to avoid it. If you can’t here’s some useful advice:
      A. Grow an ultra thick skin because you are going to need it. People suck. People who think they are entitled to a dead person’s stuff because: reasons suck waaaaay worse. You will see people say and do wicked and insane stuff to you to try to get whatever it is they want.
      B. Gain Control and Lock Up Everything belonging to the Estate as soon as possible. Siblings, cousins, preachers, the homeless meth head from down the road will be ransacking everything about .000002 nanoseconds after granny draws her last breath if they haven’t done it as soon as they heard she was on her death bed. BE ABSOLUTELY RUTHLESS about this. Cellular Game Cameras, DVR systems, burglar alarms are all your friends here.
      C. Document everything you do. You can and will be sued for anything you do or do not do in settling the estate. If I were you and your state laws allow it I’d record every interaction with every single heir, lawyer, creditor, etc…. on a digital audio recorder and/or a body worn concealed camera. If your state says you don’t have to tell the other party you are recording, don’t tell them. That practice has literally kept me from being sued and from being thrown in jail by lying scumbags. If they make a false report or affidavit against you go scorched earth and file charges against them and ride the prosecutor and sheriff like $2 rented mules to do their jobs. Showing mercy or not wanting to make waves will be punished. Guess how I know.
      D. Embrace the wisdom of Solomon when he was confronted by the two women claiming to be the mother of the same child. Be rock hard but fair. Any show of weakness will make your job as executor and your life a million times harder. Follow the will and the letter of the law according to your estate attorney. NEVER EVER color outside the lines on that. If someone tries to bluff or intimidate you into doing something you feel isn’t in the will or legal, call them on it.
      E. Assume nothing. I have seen lawsuits filed and death matches fought over the most trivial things like threadbare quilts and coffee pots.
      There’s soooooo much more but I’m doing this for free instead of $450 per hour that a good attorney would charge so that’s all folks.
      Disclaimer: I’m not a lawyer. None of the raving cathartic lunacy written above is to be construed as legal advice ever, in any way. Consult a competent lawyer before doing, writing, or saying anything. Wear your seat belt and clean underwear.

  4. enn ess May 25, 2021 at 13:37

    Doing anything to keep the govt (state. local, ferals) out and away from any type of transfer or closing of any estate would be a plus. Trust none of them. The best way I can come up with it is to have everything already transferred into the intended receivers names before you are standing tall in front of your creator…… Either that or have everything you own in a trust with the intendeds names as co-owners. The only thing in that scenario is you only own the clothes on your back, the trust owns everything else…..

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